More About the book Becoming Soulmates

Becoming Soulmates Authors: Bonney (Grey) Meyer, R.N. and John Grey, Ph.D. 211 pages, illustrated $19.95 (+ shipping) A great relationship is one of the finest things life can offer. But lasting happiness seems hard to achieve. Sadly, too many relationships end up being weighted down by unresolved difficulties. Walls can build over time. Good feelings can seem to get lost. Couples who stay happy have the tools to keep love and good feelings alive - even through the tests of time. They know how to work through relationship problems and do so in a way that doesn't take them downhill. If you do not have the uplifting relationship you want, things can change and you can do something about it. But you need to have the right tools to succeed. You can get the most effective relationship tools available today in an easy-to-read book called Becoming Soulmates: How to Share a Deeply Passionate Journey Where Challenges Strengthen Love. All relationships run into rough spots. To have lasting satisfaction, you need to know how to keep love strong and to truly resolve problems, upsets or differences. Becoming Soulmates shows you how to create a powerful shared vision with your partner ~ how to heal old baggage that holds you back ~ how to deal with upset or difficult feelings ~ and how to build lasting satisfaction together. This book guides you in how to overcome relationship problems. It gives you communication tools to express yourself effectively and to stop destructive communication altogether. You will get powerful tools to keep love, trust and happiness alive. Tools to resolve issues and stay on a positive track. These key tools are essential if you want a truly rewarding partnership. Regardless of how troubled a relationship is, you can change things. The only question is how? To make a significant, positive shift you need to know exactly what to do. This is where Becoming Soulmates can help. It will give you powerful and practical tools to solve relationship problems and build a truly rewarding partnership.

Take action now and start using the tools offered. Gain the best relationship tools available today. That's not just our opinion. Here's what leading experts, couples therapists and coaches say:

"Powerful tools to expand joy and happiness in relating. Discover new options and make a positive difference in your relationship."
~John Gray, Ph.D., Author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

"An inspiring guidebook for the qualities necessary for fulfilling, growth-filled relationships."
~Angeles Arrien, Ph.D., Author of The Four Fold Way

"A friendly source of guidance and wisdom, to help you have the relationship you truly want."
~ John Welwood, Ph.D., Author of Journey of the Heart

"Becoming Soulmates takes us beyond all of our myths and fantasies, and shows us how couples can truly succeed together."
~Andrew Sears, Ph.D., Couples Therapist

"How to create a great relationship. Simple to understand and it lays out what you need to do step by step. And it works!"
~Timothy JohnPress, Coach and Corporate Trainer

"Clear direction for how to go about the mysterious and sometimes challenging thing we call relationship."
~Lisa Berg, Business Coach

"Reveals the workings of successful couples. Get the inside story of what it takes to have the relationship of your dreams."
~ Dawn Monnet, Coach and Motivational Speaker

Here's a sampling of chapters in this book...

CHAPTER 1 ~ Beyond the Honeymoon

What takes us from the highs of love to the lows of falling into upsets and problems?
How do satisfied couples approach issues to keep their relationship strong?

• Discover seven common blind spots that cause problems to get bigger.
• Learn what blocks couples from solving problems.
• Find out seven key approaches needed to resolve issues.
• Gain a new approach to working with difficulties, that will actually strengthen love.

CHAPTER 4 ~ the Golden Rule for soulmates

They say differences attract. But couples usually suffer over differences. How can we move beyond the struggle over differences and start working together?

• Understand ten ways most couples get stuck in struggles over differences.
• Get beyond the destructive grip of these ten common relationship traps.
• Learn the only strategy that will get you new results when things are not working.
• Discover seven specific ways to act differently in order to turn power struggles around.

CHAPTER 5 ~  Create a Powerful Shared Vision

How can we bring our highest desire for love to life, regardless of issues or problems? How can a couple share a vision which strengthens their love in all circumstances?

• Learn how to establish a solid foundation of trust and positive attitude as partners.
• Create a shared vision that "weather proofs" your relationship in stressful times.
• Discover strategies that increase shared good feelings and satisfaction.
• Make agreements that give you strength to overcome challenges and difficulties.

CHAPTER 6 ~  Stop Falling into the Hole

What’s Rule Number One if you fall into a hole? Stop digging! Here’s a vital tool to keep yourself from damaging a relationship with poor communication.

• Learn a tool to stop poor communication that makes things worse and hurts love.
• Keep yourself from making the five destructive communication mistakes that lead to breakups.
• Discover how to quickly prevent emotional reactions, and stop saying things you later regret.
• Make a powerful new agreement that keeps you from triggering upset feelings.

CHAPTER 6 (more) ~ Communicate to Get Positive Results

Good communication is a vital ingredient to keep love and happiness strong. Learn a powerful tool to get positive results when you communicate.

• Understand the key factors that help you be a resourceful, good communicator.
• Gain practical tools to communicate successfully, even about charged issues.
• How to get your viewpoint heard, make effective requests, and set healthy boundaries.
• Go beyond upsets, defensiveness or withdrawal ~ be a proactive communicator.

CHAPTER 7 ~ Transform Negative Feelings

We can get stuck in upset feelings. Learn an easy new way to move through negative emotional states, release upset feelings, even heal old wounds.

• Gain confidence in dealing with difficult feelings in yourself or in your partner.
• Learn powerful tools for soothing hurt or angry feelings, insecurities or anxieties.
• Release emotional patterns and old baggage that block the flow of good feelings.
• Gain powerful tools to truly resolve charged issues and emotional upsets.

AND MUCH MORE ~ In the 211 pages of this book you will...

Gain a comprehensive set of the most effective tools for creating the postive changes you truly want in your love live. Other chapters will help you...

• Learn a powerful tool to center yourself, to stay calm, strong and creative in any situation.
• Gain the clarity to bring your highest personal intentions to life in a relationship.

These are just some of the tools you'll get from this book...

These are just some of the tools you'll get from this book...